The vibrant, compassionate space created by Dr. Pamela Udoka (PhD), where African couples and mature individuals find learning, healing, honest conversation, and expert guidance on sex, relationships, and marriage. You are not alone in facing intimacy challenges, yet shame, silence, and unmet expectations do not have to define your story. Together, we can bring power, pleasure, and peace back to your relationship.
Dr. Pamela Udoka (PhD) is a Clinical psychologist, licensed relationship, marital and sex therapist, and popularly known as Sexpert Doctor based in Lagos. With 30+ years of therapeutic experience and a bold personality rooted in her own marital journey. Dr.Pam has helped over 3,000 clients across private and corporate settings break free from shame, spark authentic conversations, and rediscover sexual satisfaction.
Dr. Pamela Udoka (PhD) - The Sexpert Doctor
Are you feeling stuck, unseen, or disconnected? It does not have to stay that way. Your relationship or marriage life does not have to be endured every time! Whether it is emotional distance, sexual dissatisfaction, or years of silence, healing begins with one honest step.
Rediscover trust, vulnerability, and shared desire in a professionally, culturally sensitive space that honours both partners.
Navigate performance anxiety, past trauma, or body image concerns in one-on-one sessions designed to empower you.
From erectile dysfunction to mismatched libidos, to painful sex, performance anxiety, to sex after trauma, get results-driven support that celebrates pleasure without shame.
Start your marriage with confidence. Learn to talk about money, sexual expectations, and boundaries before walking down the aisle.
All services offered via Zoom, phone, or in-person appointments customized to fit your lifestyle, time zone, and convenience.
At Sexpert Doctor, we do not just talk about sex, we guide you to heal, grow, and reconnect with yourself or your partner. Whether you are feeling;
Lost in your relationship.
Stuck in silence.
Struggling with performance.
This is a safe space to start again.
Dr. Pam helped us unlock conversations we never thought we would have. We went from drifting apart to dating again even after 10 years of marriage!
I felt shame for years about my weak erections but after a session with Dr. Pam, everything changed. Now, I am finally enjoying a confident love life.
